Every time I’m asked how to identify a man with genuine intentions, my answer has always been the same, “pay attention to his attitude and behavior towards you”. It’s that simple.
He can scream it all he wants to, it doesn’t matter if he wouldn’t reflect the same in his behavior. Talk is cheap, it’s the real thing that counts. So no matter how confused you could be about a man’s true feelings towards you are, just give it time, and watch his attitude. If it’s genuine, it’ll show, if he’s not, it’ll show as well. It could take a while, but time reveals everything in the end.
So while you’re being patient, be sure to observe his behavior for the following…
HE ACTUALLY LISTENS
The man who loves you as truly as he says would not pretend to listen, but would actually hear you, understand what you say, what you think and give answers accordingly. More often than not in relationships, conversations are an exchange of words in which you wait for your turn to speak again, but with this person isn’t like that.
HE WOULDN’T PUSH YOU TO DO THINGS YOU DON’T WANT TO
Love isn’t selfish or forceful. Most of the time, we realise that guys in a relationship want to boss their woman around. If she doesn’t do as they want her to, she’s not a good one, but what about what she wants? Does he consider you at all? If he doesn’t support you, and give you space to thrive and grow, he’s bad for you.